Marriage without children

This topic is not new. It is common topic that has been discussed again and again in magazines.

This is one of my presentation topic too.

To be honest, i dun oppose marriage without children. I'm okay if someone want a marriage, but no children. But myself, i want children. I think children are cute. And I think that is one of many reasons if i'm going to marry.

To those who cant see why people dun want children, i'll give u some reasons :

First of all, many women are working now. They dont have enough time like women in past did. In this case, i agree that they do not have children. Why? Children without parent's attention will be such a pity. In early time of child, they need ur care , love, attention. If u cant provide it, please and please to not have a child. Think about ur children, how they will be without ur care and love.

Other reason is the couples simply dont love children, they dun like children. In this case, maybe it's best to not have children. Since children will be only a burden for you.

Moreover, financial problems can be one reason. Most couples cant bear a child, and just live the child to suffer or even die. Dun do so please :( I feel so pity with such children. They dun deserve it, they dun want to be born in such condition. being a bit rude, if they can choose, they may not want you as their parents. But they dun have a choice. In this case, it is also a better choice to not have children.

After all, marriage without children can be a happy marriage too. Couple may not be so stressed about the financial thing. Moreover, there are more time to spend with their couple.
The presence of children may enhance your life. But wihout children, you can enhance ur life as well. Couples may save money to go to second honey moon, rather than thinking about the uni's fee for their children.
Couples may also focus on their career without any concern of their children.

I know many conventional thinking about this topics. Many people opposed this and regarded this as a stupid things to do. But i dun think so. If they have a clear reason why they dun want a child, i think it's fine. I just dun see to the women who want to keep their body good , so that they dun want children. That is the only reason i cant accept until now.

One annoying thing to noted :

I cleaned my bathroom today. Clean -EVERYTHING-

and my sis' fren came, and went into the bathroom -.-

i was like so arghhh !

My sis WILL clean it today, and she HAS TO.

Random fact : I dun like people use my bathroom, share food (spoon, water) with me !
I dun know why, but that's me. Judge me whatever u want, i dun care.

clean the house

Fiuhh

Finally before exam, i clean my room , bathroom, and some part of dining room.

Tiring.

And no one helps me. As always.

-Gossip Girl-

It's girl hobby.

And it's bad.

I just gossiped with my frens yest.

There was a girl who use sunglasses at night, and i was thinking, 'why using sunglasses at night?' and feel that she just wanted to show off.

TOday when we met again, i told my fren, that was the girl yesterday, the one that i told u.

She laughed.

Then, she told me, that the person may be have probs with her eyes.

I was thinking, perhaps so..

And feel bad for gossiping people.

-another day in library-

Just another day staying till late in library. Been doing this from sunday.

Being more effective at library.

Anw, i got the reply from Linda -the macaron event member ! She said no probs, i still can join the event ! Yeay :) so glad

Hope i can go to the next meeting.

Wanna make new frens too :)

That's all for today


Random wise words to share :

Every hardwork will be paid.

Random

I always thought that I've been so busy which in fact not. I know most of us do think so. We always think that what we have done is so much. We are busy witha ssingments, tests, and homeworks.

I always think to have another activities to do beside studying. -whether i havent foung (or lazy?) to join any activities. Whenever start the semester, i always think, i want to join a club, but end up no. I join, but not participate, which is just a waste of money.

I promise myself, next semester , i MUST join AND participate in a club ! I dun want end up being a student with no experience in group activities or work experience! I want to get a job too next sem ! But I cant guarantee the latter. Since i dun know how hard it is to get job. But i will apply. Firstly, i will search any opportunities to become a private tutor, apply for some cafe such as max b, or looking for another jobs !

To be honest, i'm very amazed by one of my frens. He's such a dilligent, hardworking guy. I really like his determination in doing something. Whenever he says he wants to do something, he'll do it. If me, i have many excuses (having assingments, lots of tests). I find myself so lazy, i find myself being so slacking.

I want to fully utilize my brain from now on. I know i have been so lazy for this past year. I have been lazy to think, lazy to do everything -only active in imagining something stupid- .

All d best for me ! :)

Stupid mistake

I just made one stupid mistake by remember the wrong date !

Today is supposed to be the first meeting for the macaroon event and i just missed it ! ! :(

I thought it is tommorow. Just when i read, 2 June, i ralized that it was today ! !

Can i still join the volunteer? I hope that girl will reply me asap ! !