Sabtu, 05 Juni 2010

Marriage without children

This topic is not new. It is common topic that has been discussed again and again in magazines.

This is one of my presentation topic too.

To be honest, i dun oppose marriage without children. I'm okay if someone want a marriage, but no children. But myself, i want children. I think children are cute. And I think that is one of many reasons if i'm going to marry.

To those who cant see why people dun want children, i'll give u some reasons :

First of all, many women are working now. They dont have enough time like women in past did. In this case, i agree that they do not have children. Why? Children without parent's attention will be such a pity. In early time of child, they need ur care , love, attention. If u cant provide it, please and please to not have a child. Think about ur children, how they will be without ur care and love.

Other reason is the couples simply dont love children, they dun like children. In this case, maybe it's best to not have children. Since children will be only a burden for you.

Moreover, financial problems can be one reason. Most couples cant bear a child, and just live the child to suffer or even die. Dun do so please :( I feel so pity with such children. They dun deserve it, they dun want to be born in such condition. being a bit rude, if they can choose, they may not want you as their parents. But they dun have a choice. In this case, it is also a better choice to not have children.

After all, marriage without children can be a happy marriage too. Couple may not be so stressed about the financial thing. Moreover, there are more time to spend with their couple.
The presence of children may enhance your life. But wihout children, you can enhance ur life as well. Couples may save money to go to second honey moon, rather than thinking about the uni's fee for their children.
Couples may also focus on their career without any concern of their children.

I know many conventional thinking about this topics. Many people opposed this and regarded this as a stupid things to do. But i dun think so. If they have a clear reason why they dun want a child, i think it's fine. I just dun see to the women who want to keep their body good , so that they dun want children. That is the only reason i cant accept until now.

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